Sunday, December 13, 2020

The Anomalies To Avoid In Marriage

 



The Spirit Meat Daily Devotional Guide 12-12-2020


Topic: THE ANOMALIES TO AVOID IN MARRIAGE IV

Text: I Timothy 2:12, Matthew 18:19

By Rev. Olusola & Rev. Oyenike Areogun 


6. Lack of agreement and settlement by concession will bring about a compromise, which will affect your marriage negatively and also open you to the attack of the devil. Agreement is what God designed for a Christian home, not compromise (Matthew 18:19). You need to agree on every matter and not get into compromise. Compromise means ‘I give up something, and I stay in the middle of the road’. This means there is no agreement on the matter. 

Understand that marriage is not a business partnership that is a win-win relationship. In business, profit is shared based on the contribution of the shareholders. Marriage is such that the husband is lost in the wife and the wife is lost in her husband, each giving all to the other. If a couple can’t trust each other to say everything they have is theirs jointly, there is a problem.

7. Another critical point to consider is that a woman should not have authority over the man or the home (1 Timothy 2:12). As a man, if your wife will not be ahead of you in spiritual things or teach you, you need to develop yourself to function in headship without hypocrisy. A man is the head and should do more than what the wife is doing. Sensitive organs such as the eyes, mouth, ear, and nose are in the head, so as a man, you must be more sensitive than your wife.

Wisdom should flow from a man as the head of the home. If your wife is arguing with you on every matter, you are not leading by wisdom. Wisdom will make a woman to be in silence and submit to your headship.


PRAYER: Lord, baptize me with the spirit of wisdom to function correctly in my marriage.

Wednesday, December 2, 2020

The Biblical Pattern For Prayer And Fasting Part 2



TEXT: LUKE 11:1-13; Esther 4:1-17; James 5:13-18  M/V: Matt. 17:21


Examples of people who observed prayers and Fasting in the Bible.

Moses – Ex. 34:25; (2)  Ahab  - Ikings 21:27 (3) Ezra – Ezra 10:6

4.   Daniel – Dan. 10:3 (5) Christ – Luke 4:2 (6) Paul – Acts 9:9

7.   The Antioch Church leaders – Acts 13: 2 (8) Paul and Barnaba’s Acts 14:23. All of the above-observed fasting and prayers according to pattern and received answer from God. When we also observe it in line with God’s command we shall get a result, an even greater result.

Conditions for answer and hindrances to prayers and fasting. Jer. 29:11-14; 33:3; 2Chro. 7:14; John 14:13,14; Psa. 91:14, 15.

Various passages of the scripture radiate with God’s promises to answer prayers Psa. 91:15; Luk. 11:9; John 14:13, 14. The only form of prayers that God answers must be offered to one, the Father-Matt. 6:6, John 16:23; two, Through the Lord Jesus Christ – John 16:23,24; Matt. 18:20. We are therefore enjoined to One, pray continually in faith – Mk. 11:24. Two, wholeheartedly – Jer. 29:13. Three, with forgiving spirit – Mk. 11:25. Four, with perseverance – Lk. 18:1. Five, in righteousness and obedience – I Tim. 2:8; IJohn 3:22. 

There are no hand and fast rules as to the proper posture to assume before we can pray to our Father in Heaven. These are various positions as reveals in the Bible. One, bowing down, bowing the knees or head(Psl. 95:6; Rom. 14:11, Ex.4:31). Two, falling one’s face, kneeling (Ikings 8:54). Three, standing, sitting, lying, looking up or lifting up or spreading out the hands (ITim. 2:8, Ex.9:29. Four, others include weeping, talking, agonizing, and groaning.

To avoid distraction, you close your eyes. So that you can fully concentrate on God. Note that, praying and fasting without repentance and salvation from sin is a waste. It is a waste to observe prayer and fasting, one, without transformation of life and characters. Two, without righteousness.Three, Holiness. Four, disobedience Deut. 1:43, 45. Five, secret sin – Psl. 66:18. Six, neglect of mercy – Prov. 21:13. Seven, stubbornness – Zec. 7:13. Eight, bloodguiltiness – Ish. 1:15. Nine, doubt – Jam. 1:6&7. Ten, self – indulgence – James 4:3.


Sunday, November 29, 2020

The biblical pattern of praying and fasting





TEXT: LUKE 11:1-13; Esther 4:1-17; James 5:13-18  M/V: Matt. 17:21

The subject of prayer and fasting is very vital for successful Christian living and services.  As no individual can continue living without breathing, so no Christian can remain spiritually alive without praying or without making use of the benefits of fasting.  Fasting accomplishes a good number of things in the life of the believer. These include, one, chastening and humbling of the soul before God (Psa. 35:13; 69:10), two, Crucifying the appetite to give time to seek the Lord (2Sam. 12: 16-23), Three, Focusing one’s attention on God to the exclusion of all else (1Cor. 7:5). Four, it aids in temptation (Matt. 4:1-11). Five, Helps in exercising power over demons (Matt. 17:14-21). Six, Make prayer powerful and effective.

Reasons why it is necessary to pray and how often should we pray. Psa. 42:1, 2; Exo. 22:23; Matt. 7:7-11; 6:16; 17:21; Isa. 55:6, 7.

From the Bible references, prayer means communing with God. It is the soul’s desire for God (Psa.42:1, 2), a cry or supplication (Exo.22:23), an appeal from child to the father (Matt. 6:6), an instinct that must have utterance (Luk. 18:7, 13), beseeching or calling on the Lord (Exo. 32:11; Acts 7:59), lifting up or pouring out the heart and seeking the face of the Lord (Psa. 27:8; 62:8).  

We should note that though, prayer is supposed to be the most natural thing for men, the flesh is often most unwilling to pray. Hence, God’s various instructions in the Scripture. We are commanded to seek the Lord and the wicked is enjoined to forsake his ways in prayer of repentance (Isa. 55:6, 7). We are enjoined as believers to ask, seek and knock (1Chro. 16:11; Matt 7:7-11). We are commanded to pray without ceasing (1Thess. 5:17).

Biblical pattern of praying and fasting. (1Tim. 2:8; Psa. 5:3, 8; 55:17; Luk. 6:12; 4:2; 2:36, 37; Acts 13:2; Dan. 6:10; Exo. 34:28)

The Scripture makes it clear that we can pray everywhere and every time. (1 Tim.2:8). We have examples and pointers to the appropriateness of praying daily- morning (Psa.5:3). Night and day (Psa.88:1; Luk. 6:12 ;), thrice daily (Psalm. 55:17; Dan. 6:10), without ceasing (1Thess. 5:17). God expects every believer to be constant in prayer as this is the magnet that will attract His power upon our lives when exercised in faith and righteousness. Prayer becomes more effective when combined with fasting. 

Tuesday, November 17, 2020

How To Know False Knowledge In Christianity

 


Text: Colossians 2:1-8


Introduction


Paul the Apostle warns us to be on guard against all philosophies, religions, and traditions that emphasize humans functioning independently from God and His written revelation.

Today, one of the greats philosophical threats to Christianity is "secular humanism". 


What does the philosophy of humanism teach?

 1. It teaches that humanity, the universe, and all that exist consist only of matter and energy shaped into their present form by impersonal chance.

 2. It teaches that humans have not been created by a personal God, but are the product of a chance process of evolution.

 3. It rejects belief in a personal, infinite God and denies the Bible as God's inspired revelation to the human race and many more.

The philosophy of humanism began with Satan and is an expression of satan's deception that humanists as those who have exchanged the truth of God for a lie and worshipped and served created things rather than the creator ( Romans 1:25)

Moreover, we must also be careful of wrong doctrines in Christendom today. It is worthy to note that many magicians, soothsayer, and devil incarnates are masquerading as 'angels of light' ( Matthew 24: 1-3, Luke 21:8)

However, the only way we can be fully on alert is to have the knowledge of Christ himself - which we can only get through constant studying of the word of God and through the help of the Holy Spirit.


Conclusion

The devil will appear as the angel of light to deceive many. (2corinthians 2:11), empty deceit and principles of this world, hence, we must stand firm in the truth which is Jesus Christ.


Food For Thought

Beware of false knowledge, the only through knowledge is in Christ Jesus. Seek it.


What have you learned personally from this lesson?

Friday, November 13, 2020

Contemporary Social Vices: The Christian View

 


TEXT: ROMANS 1:18-27; PHILLIPIANS 4:8,9; 1PETER 1:6-11

Since the fall, Adam and all generations after him have become easily influenced by evil imaginations and actions. Through the ages past, mankind has shown evil traits in many different ways. Man himself has a sin-generating mind. He can generate or create sin and sinful entertainment. Sin, in itself, is inexhaustible. Man’s craving for evil and vices are insatiable. He ever craves for innovation of sin. Therefore, the contemporary believers – all categories, ages, educations, and illiterates restricted and free – have some newly devised set of evils. 

WHAT are CONTEMPORARY SOCIAL VICES?


Contemporary social vices are present-day evil practices in our society. (Gen.6:5) Since the flood, the heart of man has always been evil. God saw the whole imagination of the thoughts of man’s heart, every day, every year, every moment. He hardly does that which good. Such is the orientation and profile of mankind. Such were men before God brought the flood upon the earth. Strangely, the Scriptures do not give us a reason to think otherwise of believers today. 


The mind of the modern-day believers is sin – generating machine. An increase in technology means an increase in evil. With the advent of TV, Video, mobile phone, the computer, and the internet their potential for conveying thoughts in picture, color, or language motion is accompanied by increased engagement in sinful entertainments and pleasures. The TV, for instance, impresses some vices on the mind of believers and makes light of violence, hooliganism, murder, moral perversion, and assault. Therefore, to live a victorious Christian life today, we must seek the Lord daily for His grace and strength.


COMMON SOCIAL VICES THAT A CHRISTIAN SHOULD GUARD AGAINST 

ROM.1:29.30; Micha 2:1-3; James 4:4; 1JOHN 2:15-27; DET.22:5; GEN.1:1-6. 


Misuse of drug or addiction to it, a practice found among teenagers and students in schools is a vice that ranks very high in contemporary times. Some freely say that scripture does not say anything about drugs. Yes, but it does warn us against defiling or, in modern usage, destroying the temple of the Holy host which we have in us. 1Cor. 6:19,20.


The uses of drugs affect the life of its users heavily. Hard drugs inflame the mind, sedate the heart, and make the soul feel “high”. Its end is more dangerous and deadly than the beginning. It leaves its victim a wretch and a danger to others. 


Cultism. This is prevailing among students generally today. Cults, these days, pretend to be a social club but when its activities are closely examined, it is revealed as the breeding ground of all contemporary vices – wildlife, drug addiction, and immorality. In recent times, weapons like ammunition, machetes, spears, and arrows are found among members of cults in our schools and they possess a great danger to lives and properties.


Betting and Pools-staking. The bottom line and motive is covetousness. An attitude of getting – rich – quick and laziness is the driving spirit behind this practice. It is sad to see this creep into the midst of some believers having claimed to be converted.

Examination malpractices. This has reached some level because students and some parents are desperate to excel without corresponding input of labor and diligence. It looks as if this vice has come to stay and has become a burden to the constituted authority who has fear of God. Its permanency therefore does not make it right and it remains essentially evil and vicious.


Pornography. The evil sight that stirs up the base nature of man through pornography has a demonic hold on youths and believers. Illegal sensual pleasure is basically sinful. 

Lesbianism and homosexuality. These are rampant among students in boarding schools and higher institutions. Some of them are found in the religious circle particularly among believers in Christ.


Sensational music. This in the past was exclusive to sinners in brothels and pleasure – madhouses but has now been brought to the church. The most church has lost the solemnity, inspiration, freshness, and refreshing that comes with God-glorifying music in the Bible. From old, music has always been a spiritually and edifying medium. Col.3:16. David’s songs and playing on the harp had a great spiritual and soothing impact on Saul. Elisha called for a minstrel under whose ministration he received inspiration.2kings 3:15. Indeed, hymn – singing is a great inspiration to those who preach; just as good singing and music precede most of our preaching today. Believers are besieged by rock and roll, noisy music, drumming, and tunes which are very much akin to those that obtain in heathen shrines. Secular music has a strong appeal which makes the mind stray away from the kingdom. We must reject it outrightly. 


The use of Slang and gutter language. Col.4:6. Christian language, like salt, should do five things. First, it should sweeten, edify the heart, and the mind of the hearers. Second, it should purify, not defile or offend. Third, It should preserve the hearers from decay and spiritual decomposition. Fourth, it should be pervasive in its influence, no matter how few the words are, just as a pinch of salt would pervade a whole meal. Fifth, it should be known for its characteristics. Eccl.5:3. The Christian’s use of slangs sourced from brothels, drug addicts, “heroes” in boxing, sports, and theaters cannot make him minister to sinners. Matt.15:14.

Tuesday, November 10, 2020

The Identity Of A Good Christian

 



TEXT: HEB. 11:8-12; ROM. 4:13-21; LUKE 16:10-12

Introduction

A Christian is a person that is born again. John 3:1-7. A person that acknowledges the fact that he is a sinner, that he needs somebody to rescue him and accept the provisions for deliverance walking therein. 1Cor. 2:13-15; Mat.11:28; Titus 3:5. They are also called the true follower of Christ walking according to His instruction. They are known by their marks just as retails are known by their logos or brand name. A Christian’s mark is a reflection of Christ’s love through the relationship he has with Him. When believers live and practice the traits of Christ, their life will reveal their identity. Our mark is His mark. Our identity is blended with His. 1Cor. 6:17.

In this study, we shall look at the character traits of God’s stewards that make up their brand name. One, the traits inspire us to look for Jesus return and two, to do the work entrusted to us as faithful stewards of His truth.

 The following are the identity we shall study. 

1Faithfulness

2. Loyalty 

3. A clear conscience 

4.Obedience

5. Trustworthy 

6. Honesty

7. Individual accountability.

Each of the above characteristics describes a deepening relationship we can have with the one who came to seek and save the lost. The more these qualities are studied, accepted, and used, the deeper they will be rooted in our lives. God’s character of love, in all its dynamics, will become our identity and have an influence on every aspect of our lives, today, and eternally.

FAITHFULNESS

The word faithfulness comes from two words, faith and full. Faith means “strong and firm belief in something for which there is no proof”. Heb.11:1. Full means “as much as possible or completely”. In Hebrew, faithful means to trust. Therefore, 

1. Faithfulness is a firm strong belief in something for which there is no as much as possible. 

2. True to the facts, to a standard, or an original.

3. Keeping your promises or doing what you are supposed to do. 

4. Faithfulness means we have been tested and tried and have remained firmly committed to God’s plan.

Faithful is what God is and what we are to become through Him working in us. It is staying true to what we know is right, especially in the heat of spiritual battles. Spiritual conflicts between right and wrong, good and evil, will surely come. They are part of the fight of faith. The decision that marks believers in every situation is the choice to be faithful. 

If you love wealth, be sure to remain faithful to God and what He says about the dangers of the love of money.

If you crave fame, remain faithful to what the word of God says about humility.

If you struggle with lustful thoughts, remain faithful to the promises of holiness.

If you want power, remain faithful to what God says about being a servant of all.

The choice to be faithful or unfaithful is often made in a split second, even if the consequences can be eternal. Example of faithful people in the Scripture

God – Deut. 7:9; 9:5; 1King 8:56; Psalm 89:1; 1Cor. 1:9; Heb.6:18; 1Pet. 4:19.

Christ – 1Thessa. 5:24; 2Thess. 3:3; 2Tim. 2:13; Heb.2:17; 10:23; Rev. 1:5; 19:11 and others;

Daniel – Dan. 6:4; Nehemiah’s treasurers – Neh.13:13; Moses – Heb. 3:5; Workmen under Hilkiah – 2Chro. 34:11-12; Workmen under Jehoiada – 2Kings 12:15; Joseph – Gen. 39:6.

Reward of faithfulness. Mt. 24:45; Luke 19:17; Rev. 2:10; 20:4; Psalm 132:12; 103:17-18; Ex. 19:5; 

Warning of unfaithfulness. Song. 1:6; Isaiah. 5:7; Heb.10:1; Mat. 21:43; 25:24; 25:25; Luke 16:12.